Healthy Relationships For Beautiful Life
Healthy Relationships For Beautiful Life
Healthy relationships are built on each person's relationship with himself or herself. The relationship with oneself is the foundation of all relationships. Both sides must have overcome their denial systems to some extent, acquired some level of self-awareness, and become prepared to accept responsibility for themselves. In principle, each must be a distinct individual in his or her own right. It is genuinely challenging to have a living process (healthy) connection if one does not have a relationship with oneself; it is impossible, to be honest with the "other" if one is not in contact with oneself.
This relationship with the self is a source of pleasure and expansion and needs time and nurturing in order to grow. In order to have a relationship with the self, it is necessary to have quiet time alone, time to enrich one's spirituality. A relationship with the self takes time. Truly having a relationship with our own process relates us to the process of the universe.
The following two relationships that occur in healthy relationships are each person's fantasized relationship with the other. Each person has a fantasy about what is go in on with the other and about who the other is. In healthy relationships, it is necessary to bring these fantasized relationships into the conscious self, explore them, and make them available to and share them with others. These relationships can be the source of a lot of fun, and as long as we know them for what they are, they can add richness to our relationships with ourselves and others.

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